To Crib or not to Crib? Do You REALLY Need a Crib?

More often than not, we picture the perfect nursery with a crib as the focal point. But with Montessori recommendations, changing baby needs, and budget constraints, we have to ask: is a crib really necessary?

Lessons from a New Mom

I've made some mistakes, and I'm here to shed some light for all you new mommas out there. Like many first-time moms, my first (and most expensive) purchase was a beautifully handcrafted Victorian bassinet. Spoiler alert: we ended up co-sleeping for the next five months. The bassinet stood there, pretty but useless, while our baby preferred her lounger for daytime naps.

A Nursery Without a Crib?

So, can you have a nursery without a crib? A close friend of mine, an experienced momma, went straight for an elevated twin bed. She created a stunning space for her baby, thinking long-term with neutral tones and timeless pieces. Did she miss the crib? Not at all. But she did admit that with a wiggly toddler and no crib barriers, you need eyes in the back of your head to prevent accidents. Cribs are great for keeping babies out of trouble! She co-slept with her baby in the twin bed until early toddlerhood.

The Montessori Bed Debate

What about the famous Montessori bed? To be honest, unless it's a boho or safari-themed nursery, a floor bed can make the room feel unfinished. However, Montessori beds are a fantastic idea for small children, fostering freedom of movement, independence, and self-reliance. Just remember, you wouldn't leave a baby alone without some sort of safety fence.

So, To Crib or Not to Crib? Rethinking the Nursery Essential

So, is there a definitive answer to needing a crib? It really depends on whether you plan on using it. I ended up buying a standard crib when my baby was around 6 months old because it wasn't useful before then. Will it last? We'll see. Thankfully, the second-hand market for cribs and bassinets is active, so if a fancy bassinet or crib doesn't work for you, you might recoup some of your expense.

Stay Flexible, Mommas!

The key message I want to share with all mommas is to stay flexible. Motherhood is a wild ride, and it often means improvising and adapting to your baby's and your own needs. Ironically, everything changes again in a matter of weeks as your baby grows and learns new things. For me, cribs work aesthetically and for baby safety. I love how they look and how they historically set the mood in a nursery.

Share Your Thoughts!

This is a non-judgmental space for all parents. I'd love to hear your experiences! Are you a crib enthusiast or a floor bed defender? Share your thoughts below.

Until next time, friends!

Valeria V. from Haute Bambino Team

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Disclosure: This is only my personal opinion, and the safety of your baby should always come first. Whatever you decide for your baby’s sleeping arrangements, ensure it complies with safety standards to keep your little one safe.